I have volunteered and counseled women from a domestic violence center. The women were incredibly brave and courageous to leave their abusive relationships. Money worries were a common obstacle for them to leave. In this situation you SO want to tell them not to worry about money. The truth is, all of us have to educate ourselves and be responsible with money. Unfortunately, there is no magic pill that is going to fix all of your money issues overnight.
One common theme I saw from these women was that they had NO IDEA about the finances in their relationship. They did not know how much money their husband or boyfriend made, how much was in a bank account, what the money was spent on, etc. They were completely in the dark and dependent on others to help them with their finances.
Money is an area that is uncomfortable for many people, especially women. There are various reasons why women choose not to be involved with their finances. I have seen situations where trusting someone else or avoiding dealing with your finances can lead to serious problems.
I knew I wanted to learn about and understand money at an early age. I later decided that I want to help others face their fears of investments and money and have their finances be a positive and enabling factor in their life, not something they avoid and worry about. Taking control is better than not having control.
Yes, it is intimidating to ask for help. I understand that. I also understand that it can be challenging when you don’t even know where to start or what questions to ask. BUT not asking for help and not doing anything isn’t going to make things better. One of my favorite quotes is: “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”
To improve your personal financial situation (and your life) you need for your relationship with money to change. Each of us has our own unique financial struggles with emotional baggage and reactions to money. It varies from person to person and differs in degree. Money is a HUGE area for healing and improving your life.
I chose to be a financial planner because I want to feel confident and empowered about money and investments. This is my way to help others, especially women, to increase their knowledge and comfort with their financial situation. The women at the domestic violence center are a big reason I do what I do. I want to help and educate others in a supportive, honest and compassionate way no matter what your knowledge or asset level.
Money provides options and freedom to live your life the way you want to. You can use your money to do so much good and add joy to your life and others when it is aligned with your core values.
I am passionate about helping others – especially women, to understand and feel good about their financial situation.
This is why I am a Financial Planner and Life Coach and why I do what I do.
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